What Are the 12 Days of Christmas, and What Do They Mean?
The song has probably gotten stuck in your head a whole bunch, but have you given any thought to the meaning behind it?
Love it or hate it, “The 12 Days of Christmas” is a staple tune of, well, Christmas. Singing it over and over again, or perhaps yucking it up to a popular parody, is one of many favorite Christmas traditions. But it’s a bit bizarre! Why is it so long? Why 12 days? Why those gifts? (Can you even call flocks upon flocks of birds “gifts”?) And is there a more hidden tie-in to Christmas symbols?
Don’t worry—we’ll get to the bottom of all of it. (Well, mostly.) Put on some of the best Christmas songs and strap in.
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What are the 12 days of Christmas?
First of all, let’s tackle the “12 days” part. When are those days supposed to start? And where does Christmas fall in the 12 days?
All singing aside, there actually is a historical basis for the traditional Christmas carol we all know and love. Christians have historically celebrated a period of 12 days surrounding Christmas. The nearly two-week time period starts and ends with two pretty significant holidays: Christmas on Dec. 25, and the Epiphany on Jan. 6.
Christians believe that the 12 days of Christmas mark the amount of time it took after the birth of Jesus for the magi, or wise men, to travel to Bethlehem for the Epiphany when they recognized him as the son of God. (The specific time period was likely part of the early church’s effort to adapt pre-Christian celebrations that helped the ancient Europeans get through the long winter nights.)
With Christmas as the first day, every one of the 12 days celebrates a different saint, from St. John the Apostle on Dec. 27 to the Virgin Mary on Jan. 1. Today, how—and when—the 12 days are celebrated by Christians around the world varies. Eastern Orthodox churches use a different religious calendar, so their 12 days of Christmas start on Jan. 7 and run through the Epiphany on Jan. 19. And while Catholics celebrate the Epiphany as a single day, some Protestant churches celebrate it until Ash Wednesday, leading into the season of Lent and Easter.
Gift-giving customs also differ in some cultures. In some Latin American cultures, Christians hand out presents on Jan. 6, which they celebrate as Three Kings Day, instead of Dec. 25. And other cultures give gifts all 12 days. Like a certain “true love” we’re familiar with, thanks to an earworm of a song. Don’t miss these Christmas Eve traditions you should try this year.
12 days of Christmas meaning
So what does the song itself mean?
Well, let’s get one thing straight—it is not a secret coded song that persecuted Catholics historically used to teach children scripture without drawing the ire of those in power. This oft-circulated internet theory claims that each numbered “gift” represents a symbol of Christianity: “three French hens” for the Holy Trinity, “eight maids a-milking” for the eight Beatitudes, etc. But Snopes has debunked this theory; it has enough inconsistencies, and little enough evidence, to be almost assuredly just a myth.
So, what is the 12 days of Christmas meaning? Well, it doesn’t really mean anything. Instead, the song most likely began as a memory game for kids. That’s why it’s so dang long and repetitive!
“The first known version of it was in a 1780 children’s book called Mirth Without Mischief,” explains Ed Daly, author of The Christmas Book: The Ultimate Guide to Your Favorite Holiday. (Check out these other great Christmas books as well!) As Daly describes, “It was kind of like a more innocent ‘truth or dare.'” Basically, kids would challenge each other to recite the words from memory, adding on a new line every time (as the song does today). If you messed up, you’d have to do a favor for whomever challenged you to the game, perhaps, or give them a kiss or some candy. It was still Christmas themed, though. “People would sing it at Twelfth Night [the eve of the Epiphany],” Daly says. Sounds like a fun Christmas activity!
Have the 12 days of Christmas lyrics changed over the years?
For as long as the song has been around, there have been slightly different versions of the lyrics. Even today, you’ll see some number jumbling, specifically among the bigger numbers: Is it 10 or 12 lords a-leaping, and 11 or 9 ladies dancing? And in past versions that can be found in old songbooks, it’s the narrator’s mother, not a true love, who gives all these lavish gifts.
Others still include gifts like “bears a-baiting” or “ships a-sailing” that you won’t find in the song today. And there may even be a “misheard lyrics” situation going on: Those “four calling birds” were probably originally intended to be “colly birds”—colly being an old-timey word for the color black. (See if you find it among the Christmas colors.)
And we’re likely misinterpreting one of the current lyrics as well. It’s not definitive, but it seems likely in the context of the song that the “five golden rings” are not referring to gold jewelry but instead to the markings on a ring-necked pheasant. That seems to make more sense (relatively speaking), since all the other gifts on the first seven days are birds. (So is that one pheasant or five pheasants?)
Either way, it’s a ton of birds! “Somebody was obsessed with birds when they came up with this!” jokes Daly.
The current version of the song is a little over a century old. Today, its final verse goes something like this:
On the twelfth day of Christmas, my true love sent to me
Twelve drummers drumming
Eleven pipers piping
Ten lords a-leaping
Nine ladies dancing
Eight maids a-milking
Seven swans a-swimming
Six geese a-laying
Five golden rings
Four calling birds
Three french hens
Two turtle doves …
And, of course, a partridge in a pear tree!
“The song we know today, the version we know of it, was written by a guy named Frederic Austin in 1909,” Daly says. That encompasses the words we know today as well as the familiar tune. “From there, once Christmas music became a ‘thing,’ then you start having artists like Perry Como and John Denver and the Muppets [perform it]. All of a sudden, it became something that people knew.” And once you know it, you can’t un-know it. The Christmas music library is rife with versions and funny Christmas song parodies, and all year round it’s not uncommon to hear someone add “… and a partridge in a pear tree!” to the end of a comically long list.
12 days of Christmas gifts: How much do they cost?
Now you know that the song was never intended to be a serious portrayal of holiday gifts. But it’s still fun to speculate about what it would actually be like to give and receive those unique gifts—and the PNC Christmas Price Index provides a cost estimate every year. They account for everything from wages for the maids a-milking to the weirdly high cost of seven swans, the most expensive item.
In 2020, they even accounted for COVID, with price hikes for the gold rings—and, grimly for the art world (and the gift recipient!) but happily for the purchaser, a cost of $0 for all the musicians and dancers, to account for the cancellations of live performances. Man, we can’t even suspend our disbelief in a hypothetical scenario about a wacky Christmas song!
And how much would those gifts set you back? In 2021, if you wanted to stay true to the song and get your “true love” each day’s gifts the number of times they’re mentioned in the song, that was 364 gifts, for a whopping $179,454.19!
Daly’s main takeaway? “I’d rather take a trip around the world for two, for the price of [just] the swans!” he says. You could also get everything on this list of inexpensive Christmas gifts, or just plan a Christmas movie date night!
Additional reporting by Jen McCaffery.
- Ed Daly, author of The Christmas Book: The Ultimate Guide to Your Favorite Holiday
- How Stuff Works: “What Are the 12 Days of Christmas?”
- Slate: “Merry (Russian Orthodox) Christmas!”
- The BBC: “Epiphany”
- Vox: “The 12 Days of Christmas: The story behind the holiday’s most annoying carol”
- Snopes: “The Twelve Days of Christmas”
- Good Housekeeping: “The True Meaning Behind the ’12 Days of Christmas’ Song Lyrics, Explained”